[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.vitka.cz\/bude-to-podle-me\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.vitka.cz\/bude-to-podle-me\/","headline":"Bude to podle m\u011b!","name":"Bude to podle m\u011b!","description":"Jak se mohlo st\u00e1t, \u017ee se \u201enajednou\u201c s partnerem nedomluv\u00edte? Jednodu\u0161e, p\u0159estali jste ve stavu zamilovanosti ustupovat a uk\u00e1zali jste, kdo jste a jak\u00fd je…","datePublished":"2023-06-08","dateModified":"2023-06-08","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.vitka.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.vitka.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/4faace62981be50719be6a25151192978e6d585737a520836dcb98934de3bb45?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/4faace62981be50719be6a25151192978e6d585737a520836dcb98934de3bb45?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"vitka.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.vitka.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a339590_w2731_t1552754326.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.vitka.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a339590_w2731_t1552754326.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.vitka.cz\/bude-to-podle-me\/","wordCount":448,"articleBody":"Jak se mohlo st\u00e1t, \u017ee se \u201enajednou\u201c s partnerem nedomluv\u00edte? Jednodu\u0161e, p\u0159estali jste ve stavu zamilovanosti ustupovat a uk\u00e1zali jste, kdo jste a jak\u00fd je v\u00e1\u0161 n\u00e1zor. To, \u017ee je jin\u00fd ne\u017e va\u0161eho partnera, rozhodn\u011b nen\u00ed ten nejz\u00e1sadn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed probl\u00e9m. Sta\u010d\u00ed si uv\u011bdomit, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk je \u201eod z\u00e1kladu\u201c jin\u00fd, pro\u0161el jinou v\u00fdchovou, jin\u00fdm prost\u0159ed\u00edm, m\u00e1 jin\u00e9 fyzick\u00e9 p\u0159edpoklady… A p\u0159esto je te\u010f zapot\u0159eb\u00ed \u2013 obzvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165 jde-li o va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b \u2013 se domluvit, doj\u00edt ke shod\u011b. Mo\u017en\u00e1 pr\u00e1v\u011b proto, \u017ee v\u00e1m na d\u00edt\u011bti tolik z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed, zkou\u0161\u00edte prosazovat sv\u016fj n\u00e1zor v\u0161emi zp\u016fsoby a nechcete z n\u011bj slevit \u2013 za ka\u017edou cenu. \t\u00a0\tZa\u010dn\u011bte reviz\u00ed sv\u00e9ho vnit\u0159n\u00edho nastaven\u00ed. Co pro v\u00e1s znamen\u00e1 slovo \u201ekompromis\u201c? N\u011bkdo ho myln\u011b spojuje s pocitem selh\u00e1n\u00ed, \u00fastupu, pon\u00ed\u017een\u00ed nebo naopak boje, v\u00edt\u011bzstv\u00ed, nadvl\u00e1dy. M\u00e1te vlastn\u00ed zku\u0161enost s kompromisn\u00edm \u0159e\u0161en\u00edm, kter\u00e9 by vedlo ke spokojenosti obou stran? Pamatujte, \u017ee ve vztaz\u00edch se nebojuje a nesout\u011b\u017e\u00ed, ale spolupracuje!\t\u00a0\tDobr\u00fdm z\u00e1kladem pro kompromis je pochopit, co m\u011b osobn\u011b vede k m\u00e9mu postoji, jak\u00e9 m\u00e1m vnit\u0159n\u00ed motivace k jedn\u00e1n\u00ed. Jestli mi jde o \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed probl\u00e9mu nebo o tzv. m\u00e1m pravdu\u201c. Kdy\u017e tento krok zvl\u00e1dnu, pod\u00edv\u00e1m se na protistranu. Hled\u00e1m jej\u00ed motivace pro jedn\u00e1n\u00ed, jej\u00ed d\u016fvody, sna\u017e\u00edm se o jejich pochopen\u00ed. A jde-li tu je\u0161t\u011b o t\u0159et\u00edho \u010dlena rodiny, zohled\u0148uji jeho dispozice, mo\u017enosti i p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed. Rozhodn\u011b se nesna\u017e\u00edm d\u00edt\u011b p\u0159emluvit nebo donutit ho st\u00e1t na jedn\u00e9 stran\u011b. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed si mohou vybavit \u00fasm\u011bvnou klasickou poh\u00e1dku zn\u00e1mou slovy: \u201eChaloupko, ke mn\u011b!\u201c Tak jen pozor, a\u0165 se nechov\u00e1te podobn\u011b.\t\u00a0\tPokud v\u00e1m p\u0159edchoz\u00ed doporu\u010den\u00ed nefunguj\u00ed a st\u00e1le stoj\u00edte p\u0159ed konfliktem, pokuste se ho \u2013 obrazn\u011b \u0159e\u010deno \u2013 alespo\u0148 p\u0159em\u00edstit mimo d\u00edt\u011b. Prakticky to znamen\u00e1, \u017ee byste m\u011bli zajistit, aby d\u00edt\u011b nebylo t\u00edm, kdo se bude c\u00edtit p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 mocn\u00fdm \u2013 tj. d\u00e1-li p\u0159ednost jednomu \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed, pak by to automaticky znamenalo, \u017ee dalo p\u0159ednost jednomu z rodi\u010d\u016f a toho druh\u00e9ho om\u00edtlo. Zabra\u0148te jako dosp\u011bl\u00ed tomu, aby v\u00e1m konflikt p\u0159erostl p\u0159es hlavu a stal se zbran\u00ed proti tomu druh\u00e9mu. A pokuste se b\u00fdt k sob\u011b navz\u00e1jem up\u0159\u00edmn\u00ed a k vlastn\u00edm postoj\u016fm sebekriti\u010dt\u00ed.\t\u00a0                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.3\/5 - (7 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Bude to podle m\u011b!","item":"https:\/\/www.vitka.cz\/bude-to-podle-me\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]